As most Japanese women have their own income, marriage is no longer a financial necessity and women want to find companionship in a husband. There is "a wide gap in men's and women's attitudes and expectations toward marriage" vis-à-vis traditional gender roles, says Sumiko Iwao, professor of social psychology at Musashi Institute of Technology in Yokohama.
For instance, coming home later than your Japanese husband is a no-no.
When you factor in the expense of going out, meeting potential sex or relationship partners at bars or other social events, buying drinks or eats, and closing the deal, it’s no surprise a man would want to streamline the dating, mating and relating process to maximize his ROI.
The explosion of the digital dating app market has allowed him to do just that.
For example, a girl might call out Get a Korean girl and she’ll do all sorts of little things to make you a comfortable, happy man.Just do your hair, I’m not asking you to apply all types of chemicals, or pay Beyoncé money for a lace front.I just want you to look presentable for yourself not for me. That’s cool and all but I’m going to need you to shave under your arms because that hair brings funk.When Louann and I recently reconnected, she said she still believes this is true — if not worsening as society becomes more technology dependent.In the absence of IRL interaction, the anthropological cues that help women determine the safety and desirability of a potential partner are eliminated.